Finding Light in the Shadows: A Review of Thinking of Mom
As a book blogger who often dives into the rich world of children’s literature, I was drawn to Thinking of Mom: A Children’s Picture Book about Coping with Loss by a talented author whose compassion shines through every page. The very premise of this story—a tender exploration of loss through the eyes of a young girl—made me pause and reflect on how important it is for children to have resources when grappling with difficult emotions. This book not only caught my eye but pulled at my heartstrings with its moving narrative.
At the center of Thinking of Mom is Ella, an innocent young girl who revels in the everyday moments shared with her mother. From brushing her teeth to playing outside, these rituals embody a comforting normalcy. However, when illness shadows Ella’s beloved mom, the story deftly shifts to the tumult of emotions that often accompany loss: sadness, anger, and confusion. I was struck by how authentically these feelings were portrayed. It’s rare to find a children’s book that doesn’t shy away from the complexities of grief but instead embraces them head-on—gleaming insights into how children may process feelings that are often too big for them to articulate.
The strength of this narrative lies in its portrayal of the relationships entwined in the fabric of loss. Dad steps in to support Ella, demonstrating that vulnerability is not a sign of weakness but a pathway to healing. This element resonated deeply with me; witnessing a parent openly grieve fosters a sense of solidarity, allowing children to feel less isolated in their own grief. It encourages dialogue, encouraging kids to express their emotions rather than bottling them up.
The watercolor illustrations throughout the book are exquisite, breathing life into the text and adding layers of warmth and empathy. They complement the narrative perfectly, capturing both the joyful moments and the somber undertones with an artist’s sensitivity. I find myself envisioning these illustrations as recurring imagery in the minds of young readers—quiet reminders of both love and loss.
One moment that stood out was the gentle imagery of Ella overcome with memories, where the illustrations bloom with vibrant colors against the heavier themes, reminding us all that joy and sorrow often coexist. A poignant line that struck me was when Dad tells Ella, “Memories are like sunshine on a cloudy day.” This simple yet profound statement encapsulates the essence of the book—that even through grief, happy memories can be a source of strength.
Thinking of Mom is invaluable for families dealing with loss, and it serves as a fantastic resource for teachers, therapists, and caregivers alike. It speaks not just to children who have experienced loss, but also to the adults trying to help them navigate such challenging waters. I wholeheartedly recommend it for anyone looking to foster conversations around grief with young readers, opening the door to dialogue in a gentle and compassionate way.
In closing, Thinking of Mom isn’t merely a book; it is a heartfelt companion for those traversing the labyrinth of loss. It left me with a sense of hope and warmth, a reminder that even in our darkest moments, love and cherished memories can guide us back to light. For anyone who has wondered how to support a child through grief, this book is a beautiful starting point, filled with empathy and understanding.
You can find Thinking of Mom: A Children’s Picture Book about Coping with Loss here >>